God rings in Help

Its been quiet a hectic weekend with Christmas and cousins. Had the best time ever. Never felt a single moment of missing my family back home in India. Back to NJ finally. :) So he too had a pretty good Christmas vacation. Had enough time to figure things out, he wanted to fix everything he had messed up with family, friends and loved ones over the last four years, i suddenly realized he never mentioned who was on call the other day. On asking he said, it was from a girl who had loved him in college. She was crazy and madly in love with him, but he never reciprocated neither did he think of her, as he was in a relation with the girl whom he though to be his life. Though he was telling me about how they met and why she happened to like him , all the while his tone was balanced, his eyes never twitched and his voice was strong and capturing. I knew he was serious and was not joking. I asked him , then why did she have to call you now? Does she still love you? Do you want to get things going with her? . His reply was a stern NO to every question i asked. Then he explained. When he was in college, the girl liked him but because he was in a relation he never wanted to interact with her, but as a friend, he kept reassuring himself, this cannot happen and he kept reminding the girl, he cannot be anything but friends. Even though they were friends he always shared things which he never could with anyone else, but when things went bitter , the only person who could make him understand and tell him the right approach was her. They were friends, they always have been and they will be friends forever. SO why did she call?? , She called to tell him he did the right thing, to let go. When someone treats you like an option then the only option you have is to let go. He said, she is happy now, she has finally found her man and i am happy for them too. They make the best couple ever. She advised him to move on and weed out all the hatred, heal the relationships he had to loose in order to be with someone who never knew the value of him in life. She asked him to speak to his parents about it all, pour his heart out and he shall fell better and rejuvenated. She asked him to make new friends, to find those who think like him, who understand him as a friend. He did all that and now, he is happy again, content and satisfied with the way his life was and his future though it seemed cloudy, he was ready to walk blindfolded for he had his people standing behind him, walking with him, ready to support him. I heard it all, and i asked are you happy, he looked into my eyes, smiled and said NOT YET. So why wasn't he happy??